Saturday, August 17, 2013

Summer is DONE!

Summer is officially over for my family.

All of the siblings start school on Monday. Who is going to be curling into a ball and crying all day.
à this person right here.

Me! 


My sister, Melissa, starts her final year of college. I remember watching her load up the car for her first move- in day 4 years ago. She got to move in early due to being on the UWA’s colorguard and attending band camp. I didn't go down to drop her off the 1styear. I did the 2nd year and had a blast! We spent time as a family moving her in with a newborn and a 3 year old helping! She has made life long friends and many many memories. She has gotten to do things that many people only dream about. Now she will complete her final year before becoming a special education teacher. I am super proud of her and she is carrying on the family tradition!
Melissa in Hawaii for a once in a lifetime service immersion trip for her sorority. 

My brother, Joseph, start his final year in his welding program. I cried at his high school graduation and him receiving a diploma. It was such a dream come true and he had the loudest family section in the place. Now he is almost done learning a trade that he loves! He is always showing off his work and the different things he makes. I am so excited that he has found something to being doing something he loves and has such a passion for.
Joseph "modeling" during a quick sibling shoot! 


My little bit, Brooklyn, is starting 5th grade this year. Can we say “No way?”.  She is half of me and half of Melissa. It was so eye opening this summer when she came to stay how much of a mini-me she is. This is the one who I rocked to sleep, cleaned up spit up from,  and walked into her kindergarten class with.  Moving away before she started 3rdgrade was hard.  I missed out on her 3rdand 4th years and on Joe’s senior year.  I have pictures that she has drawn or colored hanging in my room.  I can’t believe she is finishing her final year of elementary school this year. It can not be possible that she will be in middle school and then high school in a blink of an eye. 

Just turning my sassy mini into a Annie Oakley! 


Then there are the boys- Braiden and JR They start kindergarten this year. Tears just Tears. Braiden loved kinder camp and did not want to leave school yesterday. JR was a little less excited apparently. Braiden has a teacher who our family LOVES! She was the best kindergarten teacher that we could have asked for when we had Jon-Jon. I wish Braiden and JR had the same teacher.. L
JR at Easter... One of my favorite pictures of this sweetie! 

Mom's love bug, Braiden- he was super excited to finish off the corn with no front teeth! 




Now off to cry some more. This weekend sucks! 

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Ohana

Ohana
 It means family in Hawaiian. The movie “Lilo and Stitch” made the phrase,Ohana means family, family means nobody gets left behind. Or forgotten.” Today and tomorrow are really big days in my family.


Today, I am covering my best friend and her husband in prayer. They are awaiting news that will drastically change their lives, good or bad. My best friend is has been there for me in everything since we met in college. I remember meeting her for the first time at a colorguard tryouts for the UAB’s Guard of Gold. We had a big circle in the middle of the floor to introduce ourselves. She mentioned wanting a big family, adopting, and being a social worker. I said I wanted a big family, adopting and my parents do foster care. Needless to say, we clicked and that was the start of a great friendship. So covering my Megan and her Trent in prayers today! One of my favorite pictures of Megan on the day her hubby came home from deployment. 



Tomorrow, we will “celebrating” be the 3rd anniversary of Diva going home to her family. As a foster sister, I am in the unique position to be a big sister and another mother to children who need to be smothered in love and hope. There are children who come just for a weekend and then those that stay for years. Diva was one of those that got to stay for 3 ½ years. She is my “favorite” in that, by raising her from such a young age, she was the most like me. I honestly can tell how much a child’s environment has to do with their behavior and “raising”. I miss her bunches but I hope she is still thriving as a Diva! Her grandparents seemed like great Christian people and I can only hope she is growing like a weed! Here are some pictures of our last trip (we didn't know it at the time) and her first trip to the Beach. 

She was not sure about the water! 

She was fine with the water as long as I held her. 

One of my absolute favorite from the entire weekend.


These 2 were inseparable the entire weekend- I am glad as we got the best pictures!  
The "Joe" pose! 



Tuesday, August 6, 2013

August 6, 2011-August 6, 2013

Well, it has been 2 years since our first date. I think it has been an amazing journey to get to where we are at today!  We have made so many memories and had a lot of firsts for us as a couple. So here is a quick recap! We have been to Houston, Alabama, and Arkansas for family visits and military stuff. We have decorated the apartment for 2 Christmases and 2 Thanksgivings- if you know us and our different decorating views, that is a miracle!  Shane has started getting the rest of his furniture to complete the apartment. I learned how to shoot a gun, several in fact. We taught Brooklyn how to shoot and took her to stand where she can be in 2 states at once. She loved that! I learned how to use chopsticks, eat sushi and guacamole, and now love them! We got a Chihuahua, Simi, and she will turn 2 in a little over a month. Whew! Those are just the few things I can think of right off the top of my head!

At the same time

August 6, 2011 was a huge day in my life due to our first date. It was also a big day in the lives of 30 military families. I remember waking up that morning and could not believe what I hearing. I even called Shane on his way home from a military schooling to tell him.  I pray constantly for these families. Losing a loved one is never easy. This operation, along with Operation Red Wings, caused extreme losses and hurt in the special forces community. This is the official statement of what happened:
        “On 6 August 2011, a U.S. Boeing CH-47 Chinook military helicopter, call sign Extortion 17, was shot down while transporting a quick reaction force attempting to reinforce an engaged unit of Army Rangers in Wardak province, west of Kabul, Afghanistan. The resulting crash killed all 38 people on board25 American special operations personnel, five United States Army National Guard and Army Reserve crewmen, seven Afghan commandos, and one Afghan interpreteras well as a U.S. military working dog. It is considered the worst loss of U.S Military life in the Afghanistan campaign, surpassing Operation Red Wings in 2005.”
        The deaths included:
  • 15 U.S. Navy SEALs from the Naval Special Warfare Development Group's Gold Squadron
  • 7 Afghan National Army Commandos, part of Afghan National Army
  • 5 U.S. Naval Special Warfare support personnel.
  • 3 U.S. Army personnel from the 7th Battalion, 158th Aviation Regiment
  • 2 U.S. Navy SEALs from a west coast based SEAL team.
  • 2 U.S. Army personnel from the 2nd Battalion, 135th Aviation Regiment, part of Colorado Army National Guard
  • 2 U.S. Air Force Pararescuemen from the 24th Special Tactics Squadron
  • 1 U.S. Air Force Combat Controller from the 24th Special Tactics Squadron
  • 1 Afghan civilian interpreter
  • 1 U.S. Military Working Dog
The names, ranks and commands of the fallen:

The following sailors assigned to an East Coast-based Naval Special Warfare unit were killed: 
                Lt. Cmdr. (SEAL) Jonas B. Kelsall, 32, of Shreveport, La., 
                Special Warfare Operator Master Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) Louis J. Langlais, 44, of Santa Barbara, Calif., 
                Special Warfare Operator Senior Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) Thomas A. Ratzlaff, 34, of Green Forest, Ark., 
                Explosive Ordnance Disposal Technician Senior Chief Petty Officer (Expeditionary Warfare Specialist/Freefall Parachutist) Kraig M. Vickers 36, of Kokomo, Hawaii,  
                Special Warfare Operator Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) Brian R. Bill, 31, of Stamford, Conn., 
                Special Warfare Operator Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) John W. Faas, 31, of Minneapolis, Minn., 
                Special Warfare Operator Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) Kevin A. Houston, 35, of West Hyannisport, Mass., 
                Special Warfare Operator Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) Matthew D. Mason, 37, of Kansas City, Mo., 
                Special Warfare Operator Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) Stephen M. Mills, 35, of Fort Worth, Texas, 
                Explosive Ordnance Disposal Technician Chief Petty Officer (Expeditionary Warfare Specialist/Freefall Parachutist/Diver) Nicholas H. Null, 30, of Washington, W.Va., 
                Special Warfare Operator Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) Robert J. Reeves, 32, of Shreveport, La., 
                Special Warfare Operator Chief Petty Officer (SEAL) Heath M. Robinson, 34, of Detroit, Mich., 
                Special Warfare Operator Petty Officer 1st Class (SEAL) Darrik C. Benson, 28, of Angwin, Calif. 
                Special Warfare Operator Petty Officer 1st Class (SEAL/Parachutist) Christopher G. Campbell, 36, of Jacksonville, N.C., 
                Information Systems Technician Petty Officer 1st Class (Expeditionary Warfare Specialist/Freefall Parachutist) Jared W. Day, 28, of Taylorsville, Utah, 
                Master-at-Arms Petty Officer 1st Class (Expeditionary Warfare Specialist) John Douangdara, 26, of South Sioux City, Neb., 
                Cryptologist Technician (Collection) Petty Officer 1st Class (Expeditionary Warfare Specialist) Michael J. Strange, 25, of Philadelphia, Pa., 
                Special Warfare Operator Petty Officer 1st Class (SEAL/Enlisted Surface Warfare Specialist) Jon T. Tumilson, 35, of Rockford, Iowa, 
                Special Warfare Operator Petty Officer 1st Class (SEAL) Aaron C. Vaughn, 30, of Stuart, Fla., and 
                Special Warfare Operator Petty Officer 1st Class (SEAL) Jason R. Workman, 32, of Blanding, Utah. 
The following sailors assigned to a West Coast-based Naval Special Warfare unit were killed: 
                Special Warfare Operator Petty Officer 1st Class (SEAL) Jesse D. Pittman, 27, of Ukiah, Calif., and 
                Special Warfare Operator Petty Officer 2nd Class (SEAL) Nicholas P. Spehar, 24, ofSaint Paul, Minn. 
The soldiers killed were: 
                Chief Warrant Officer David R. Carter, 47, of Centennial, Colo.  He was assigned to the 2nd Battalion, 135th Aviation Regiment (General Support Aviation Battalion), Aurora, Colo.; 
                Chief Warrant Officer Bryan J. Nichols, 31, of Hays, Kan.  He was assigned to the 7th Battalion, 158th Aviation Regiment (General Support Aviation Battalion), New Century, Kan.; 
                Staff Sgt. Patrick D. Hamburger, 30, of Lincoln, Neb.  He was assigned to the 2nd Battalion, 135th Aviation Regiment (General Support Aviation Battalion), Grand Island, Neb.; 
                Sgt. Alexander J. Bennett, 24, of Tacoma, Wash.  He was assigned to the 7th Battalion, 158th Aviation Regiment (General Support Aviation Battalion), New Century, Kan.; and 
                Spc. Spencer C. Duncan, 21, of Olathe, Kan.  He was assigned to the 7th Battalion, 158th Aviation Regiment (General Support Aviation Battalion), New Century, Kan. 
The airmen killed were: 
                Tech. Sgt. John W. Brown, 33, of Tallahassee, Fla.; 
                Staff Sgt. Andrew W. Harvell, 26, of Long Beach, Calif.; and 
                Tech. Sgt. Daniel L. Zerbe, 28, of York, Pa. 
                All three airmen were assigned to the 24th Special Tactics Squadron, Pope Field, N.C









Monday, August 5, 2013

Week 1 update

well... I have an update of everything I have gotten done this first week and even added to the lists!

So for my regular to-do list, it now looks like this: 

To Do List:
1.       Complete as much as possible on the Wedding List
2.     Start moving things to Shane’s
a.      Craft box
b.      Books
c.      Tall dresser stuff
3.     Meal plan for November and December
4.     Get textbooks ordered-emailed about website problems
5.      Watch home movies of Shane
6.      Fix day planner (etsy lady)
7.      Get car detailed and cleaned
8.      Get apartment ready
a.      Clean carpets and fix vacuum
b.      Pick up studio
c.      Move cabinet to studio
d.     Out craft box in studio or bedroom
e.      Organize and clean bathroom cabinet and laundry room
f.      Organize pantry and bar
g.      Clean off porch
9.      See about a transfer for work
10.     Empty pictures onto ex hard drive and wipe cards
11.       Mail boxes to Meg and Ruthie Grace
12.     Reorganize bill boxes
13.     Decide on stuff in garage
14.     Special Project for the Studio
15.     Work on Household book and Kitchen book

16.     Work on Pinterest Recipes 



  And my wedding list looks like this: 
 Wedding To Do List:
1.       Get addresses- Double Check with Debbie.
2.     Address invites
3.     Get undergarments- sticky bra from Victoria’s Secret
4.     Development Meeting with TG- August 6 at 2:30
5.      Make list of things to discuss with TG
6.      Make final flower payment
7.      Order Cake topper- Order number M-100048471. Ordered 8/1/13
8.      Design Cake
9.      Hotel info for guests-After Shane comes home from AT
10.     Marriage license
11.       Get wedding bands
12.     Rehearsal dinner info( talk to Luigi’s)
13.     Ceremony programs- assembly
14.     Get parent’s gifts
15.     Get official bridesmaid’s gifts http://www.etsy.com/shop/MonPetitChouBoutique?ref=af_you_favshop
16.     Toasting glasses
17.     Charms for bouquet
18.      Food for reception
19.     Wedding timeline info- Talk to Taylor and Jenn
20.   Make day of OS kits
21.     Final payment to TG
22.  Make coming in and going out list
23.  Make travel bags
24.  Get hair done
25.   Get people’s I ternary
26.   Rent hotel rooms- After Shane gets back from AT
27.   Fill out photography sheets
28.    Find out about a pet deposit.. ($100 deposit and keep on a leash!)
29.   Rent hotel room for getting ready that day- Greenhill road. Suite with 2 king beds. Confirmation number 63092691
31.     Get Dana a present for the shower: http://www.worldmarket.com/product/aqua-butterfly-teapot.do?&from=fn
32.  Get Paula a present for the shower: 


I am super proud of myself for getting all this done in a week!